Marketing is not a tech stack, it is a mind game.
You can have the fanciest CRM, the prettiest dashboards, and a 52-step drip sequence, but if you don’t understand how to actually get someone to stop scrolling, lean in, and care? You’re not doing marketing. You’re doing admin.
Let’s get back to basics, the human brain.
Marketing is about understanding how attention works. And more importantly, how desire is manufactured.
Here’s how great marketing actually captures attention:
It hijacks the brain’s survival software. Your brain is constantly scanning for danger, novelty, and emotional highs. That’s the cocktail of attention. So marketing that’s unexpected, emotionally charged, or taps into status/fear/sex/sex/sex/sex/safety gets noticed. (There’s a reason why 80% of Super Bowl ads go for laughs or tears. Safe = ignored.)
It breaks patterns. Pattern interruption is a psychological tool. We’re wired to tune out sameness. But when something feels out of place, our brain pauses. That’s why good marketing surprises you. It forces you to re-evaluate what you thought you knew. Want proof? Look at Apple’s 1984 ad. It didn’t explain the product. It declared war on boring.
It rewards curiosity. Curiosity is one of the most powerful motivators in human psychology. A great ad doesn’t give you all the answers. It gives you just enough to want more. This is why teaser trailers work. Or why the most clicked emails have open loops like “What no one tells you about…” or “You’re making this mistake and don’t even know it.”
It leverages social proof and belonging. Humans are pack animals. We don’t want to be the only one doing something unless it gives us status. Great marketing either makes you feel like part of something bigger, or like you’ve just unlocked an exclusive club no one else knows about. Think Supreme drops (cool). Or Tesla’s original Roadster waitlist (super lame).
It creates emotional stickiness. You don’t remember stats. You remember stories that made you feel something. You remember the moment a brand made you feel seen. And you remember the ad that made you cry in your car during your lunch break.
"People will forget what you said, forget what you did, but never forget how you made them feel." -Maya Angelou Also: “People buy with emotion and justify with logic.” -Every marketer worth their salt
Now let’s talk about what most marketers miss…
They think marketing is about being a “HubSpot expert” or “Salesforce certified.” (I’m not knocking that stuff, it’s useful. But that’s plumbing, not architecture.)
If you don’t understand how to create awareness, interest, and desire, then your beautiful dashboard full of MQLs is just a digital graveyard.
Most marketers today are glorified tech operators. They’ve forgotten the golden rule:
Marketing is about influencing human behavior. Full stop.
No tool can teach you that if you don’t study psychology, sociology, anthropology, and the messiness of real people. If you aren’t obsessed with why people do what they do, you’re not a marketer. You’re a mechanic.
Here’s the hard truth: the tools will change. What doesn’t change is the wiring in your brain and mine. It’s the same wiring that made you want to try Coca-Cola in 1950 or why you still remember that “Whassup” Budweiser commercial 20 years later.
Because the brands that win? They don’t just show up in your feed. They live in your head.
And that’s marketing.
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